I read my friend's blog the other day and i wondered about knowing a friend. It's funny how i know him as a friend , yet when i read his blog, i find that i know him more, from reading, not from spending time with him. Isn't it interesting that you can know so much about a person by reading what they write , yet you may not have met that person before?
After thinking about it for few days, i came to this conclusion that i can only know him through his blog, not in person because he doesn't welcome me to his real life, eventhough both of us are in London. Like Waikea said, could it be personality crash? or we are afraid to be hurt by being close to our friends. Hence, by reading about him, i can know him from a distance and that is guaranteed a "safe" distance. Of course, connection and friendships are always two-ways.